What do the eyes around us look like?
I stand here before you representing a family, Ndinisa, a clan, Ndlamba, a small village, eMagalakangqa, a university, University of Cape Town, a country, South Africa, an amazing leadership, professional development and community service programme, SAWIP and most importantly at this very moment in time, the youth.
By the time I was in high school I had pretty much already identified at that age things that I was passionate about but I don’t know that anybody ever told me that I had the power to make the difference in my country, continent and the world.
Having been raised in two vastly different realities I have always been the kind of person who is thinking, what can I do and knowing that a countless number of people have wondered that and eventually found things, has always been encouraging to me.
Unlike then, I now know that even from a very young age there is a lot that can be done. Day by day SAWIP is helping to open up our eyes to that, so I think that it is fair and good that we are receiving that message at a critical time in our lives and that of our developing nation.
I have always preferred to focus on what I have gained as opposed to what I have never had. The beauty of growing up in the Transkei was that I was able to gain those lessons within adversity. For example that question from my teenage years, what can I do?
In time I realised that this was the most meaningful question I have ever asked myself.
There is a book called “Locked in a room full of open doors” by Ernest T Campbell. His theme indicates that people can still be prisoners within when all the doors without have been opened. Simply because no reduction of constraints outside can guarantee freedom within the individual.
Within this room full of open doors I constantly find myself sitting in a chair. I am too afraid to get up and get out of that chair because I fear what it is going to look like on the other side, maybe I fear what possibility is, instead I rather sit while the silence and solitude systematically severs my will, sanctioning and seducing me to submit to the environment, attitude, belief and expectations of the mass majority.
I subscribe to the school of thought that there is a light deep down inside all of us, my point of departure lies in the belief that it is dimming. Some of us prefer for it to dim.
We need to make sure that this light, that starts off as a candle goes from being a candle to a bonfire, from a bonfire into a towering inferno. More often than not, at home, like all the members of the SAWIP 2012 team, I meet, see and hear of young people who have a light inside that is burning so brightly that you don’t know how to turn the volume down. It is your job, your duty, your responsibility to share that light with as many people as you possibly can.
We need to remind those who are failing us, our country, continent and world that we have been naturally infused with the promise of potential and possess every bit of ability to push that into a reality where we can passionately pursue whatever purpose or divine destiny that we want. The truth of the matter is that it is up to each one of us to be able to do what it takes to stay out of your own way.
It goes back to sitting in that chair in a room full of open doors. That chair that holds us down, that chair that keeps us alone, that chair that does not give us the audacity and boldness to do whatever it is we were born to do
Time has been waiting for the South African youth to once again get up, it is time for us to get out that chair, and stop making excuses that are compromising the integrity of who we are, compromising the integrity of who we were born to be, compromising the integrity, character and accountability that we have in order to manifest our greatness into society.
Great moments are born from great opportunity and that is exactly what the youth of South Africa have, that is what our heritage has earned for us, but here is the thing, we only have one lifetime. Let us never ever forget that this is our time. We were all meant to be here.
We need to show appreciation by humbly showing those who have laid the foundations and paved the way by leaving their foot prints, that unlike them we do not need a Nelson Mandela, we need a united youth who will make sure that he echoes in eternity.
We need to depend on our power by the ability to make other people powerful. Being in the South African Consulate in New York City I would like to urge the “powers” that be to awaken possibility in us the youth.
Ben Zander formulated the concept of leadership being the art of possibility. From this I can say that you will know you are doing an effective job when you look into our eyes and if our eyes are shining then you know you are doing a proper job, our eyes are clearly not shinning as bright as they should. In the words of Ben Zander you need to ask yourself “who am I being that my children’s eyes are not shining?”
We can all ask ourselves who are we being and what do the eyes around us look like?