Ubuntu exists in all of us
In this blog I will be looking back at my first few days in America, expressing the thoughts and emotions that were going through my head and heart on my arrival in the United States, as well as my thoughts about the American people and the American culture.
We arrived in the United States of America on Thursday morning on June 14th 2012 around 9am after an 18 hour long flight. One would expect a person to be tired after such a long flight, but not the SAWIPers, the excitement was just too much for any of us to be tired. For some of us, it was the first time to be on the American soil and to others like myself, the first time leaving the African soil. As you can imagine, from exiting the flight, I was already busy looking around trying to familiarise myself with the American infrastructure, trying to compare whether it is as good looking in reality as it is on the television screen. I can safely say, I was not disappointed.
When we arrived at the airport, our host families were already waiting for us. We have heard they are very nice people and we could also pick that up from interacting with them via email. We were welcomed with the most humble and highest hospitality. I met my host mother, Joyce Scwartz, at the airport, her smile alone ensured me that I was welcomed not only in her country but also in her home. I have always viewed the people of South Africa as the nicest people in the world even though I have never been in any other country before, however after spending a month and a half in America I have come to realise that South Africa has a competition as far as hospitality and Ubuntu is concerned.
The SAWIP management team set the tone very high from the first day; we hit the ground running when we arrived In Washington, on our first day, without any proper rest we were taken on a five hour tour around DC. This made me realise that there was a lot of work to be done in so little time. I personally enjoyed the tour as I got an opportunity to learn more about the history of America and got to see the White House beyond the television screen. I got lost on my way home from the tour as I was still unfamiliar with the transportation system, I think getting lost was not an unexpected event given the fact that I had only been in Washington for only 4hours. I was fortunate enough to receive some assistance from people around the streets of Washington, the keenness to help me from the people came as a shock to me because they showed me “Ubuntu” something that i thought didn’t exist anywhere in the world but South Africa, it made me realise how much we often think we are different as people but the actual truth is that we are all the same. As Nelson Mandela puts it “deep down in every human heart there is gratitude and caring”.
The kindness that I was showed by strangers in America, people who were willing to assist me find my way home and to work whenever I was lost made me realise that before I am an African, a South African and a Xhosa, I am a human being. Similarly, before the people of America were Americans and before they were white or black, they were human beings. This made me think of our inter-connectedness as human beings, as much as we are so different and unique, we are also the same. Spending a month and a half with an American family, people I did not know, total strangers to my eyes, on top of that, it was a white family and it was my first time staying with a white family. I thought to myself, I do not know these people, they are white and I am black and therefore we will never understand each other, how am I going to survive this? As if things were not complicated enough for me, there were also other students one from Ireland and two from the Middle East staying with the Schwartz. The power of my imagination failed to paint a picture of how such a diverse group were going to survive together in the same household for a full month and a half.
After only a day spent with the Schwarz, I was shocked to discover how wrong I was. They were the most welcoming and loving people I have ever met, after only a week with them, I found myself forgetting about my biological parents for a moment, who I left back home in South Africa because the love and care I received from the Schwarz, made me feel at home, they made me feel like their own child. After spending a few days getting to know my two host sisters, Sheila and Or( from Ireland and Israel respectively) and my host brother Dia from Palestine, I could not believe how much we had in common, coming from four different countries and raised in totally different environments, we still found ourselves having so much in common. Why? The answer is because we are all human beings. I also came to realise that, regardless of where you come from, there are three universal values that all human beings posses and are raised with. The first is love, second is respect and the third value is care. As human beings, these are the values that we all possess, values based on our inborn human qualities.
The family life that I was exposed to in America is one of the elements that made my SAWIP experience a memorable one. I also had the privilege of enjoying the American Independence day on July 4th; the day was spent through what is known as a braai in South Africa, but termed a “barbeque” in America. The day was spent at one of the host family’s homes; there was the Washington Ireland Program, and the New Story Leadership students spending the day with us. We had the honour of reading the declaration of Independence in our diverse accents with the American people present on the day. This was one of my highlights of the SAWIP experience; I sat there observing how happy everyone was and how wonderful they were interacting with each other in their diversity. I knew right there at that very moment that Ubuntu is not only a South African value, but is a value that exists in each one of us by virtue of being human and it is not something that we need to dig deep down to find, it is always there.
The family of diversity
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Ubuntu exists all over the world and I have the images to prove it
If these images do not paint a picture vivid enough to express and illustrate our inter-connectedness as human beings, then I do not know what does.






