Much to my dismay the SAWIP team of 2012 graduates today. It feels like just the other day that we were all dolled up, ready to go to orientation camp, ever so excited about the journey ahead. I am most grateful. I have often written blogs expressing my gratitude to the stakeholders of SAWIP for the great contribution that they have made in our lives but I have seldom given thanks to the people who made this experience a truly remarkable one; the SAWIP 2012 team.
Coming from a fairly disintegrated family I am very familiar with the statement, “Where there is no friction there is no movement”. This was an expression that was used whenever conflict arose and people needed to justify their inability to control their emotions, “Where there is no friction, there is no movement”. Naturally, as kids, we grew up believing that it was absolutely necessary to fight in order for us to know that we were growing closer as siblings. You see, I do not deal very well with conflict, I never have, and I hope I never do. I am an intrinsically peaceful person; my soul pants after peace, just as the deer pants for the water brooks. Given the choice between keeping quite and laughing, I always choose to laugh. Given the choice between sitting and dancing, I always choose to dance. Given the choice between unrest and peace, I always choose peace. Thank you SAWIP 2012 for giving me the most valuable elements on earth- peace, laughter, love and music to dance. Together, we dismissed this distorted notion about forming relationships, we learnt to always focus on the main thing, and that is living lives that would be of value to others. We learnt to disagree in a constructive manner, we proved that movement does not have to mean that there must be friction, and we learnt that our differences do not have to push us apart.
I love each and every single one of you and I hope that this is not the end, I hope that we will continue to live our live together, sharing epic moments, laughing because nothing provides better healing.
The Intelligent Moemish (Phiwe and Kwadwo)
Moemish is a bit of a colloquial term used to describe silly moments or actions. Many have been tempted to describe such moments or actions stupid or foolish, but I completely disagree, because I can tell you now that there was absolutely nothing stupid or foolish about the moemishes in SAWIP. This is to the two guys who made my SAWIP experience an exceedingly fun one. Of course, I was always at the center of the moemish cadre and will probably walk away with the moemish award at the end of it all, but nonetheless, I would like to formally thank Phiwe and Kwadwo for making sure that I received my daily dose of laughter at every single corner of the SAWIP experience. Everyone knew that with you (us) around, there would never be a dull moment. I truly value you.
Phiwe, thank you for willingly taking the role of a big brother in my life, I spent much of my SAWIP experience with you; moaning about life, trying to get a green card in DC, eating my food with you, laughing at Kwadwo in secret, laughing at life’s great sense of humor. You are an incredible individual and a true embodiment of Ubuntu.
Kwadwo, we shared many heart-felt discussions, dreaming about the future, conceptualizing our emotions, encouraging one another. Ironically, we spent even more time laughing at ourselves and dancing up a storm at those SAWIP receptions. You are an incredibly bright young man- I have often marveled at your immense sense of wisdom and knowledge. You inspire me to reach for the stars.
The movers and the Shakers (Kgosti and Carel)
I am pretty sure that most people understand that apart from not submitting our blogs on time, and not always being punctual, there was nothing mediocre about the SAWIP team. Whatever we did, we did with utmost dedication and excellence, even if it was just finishing up a bottle of wine; we made sure that every drop was put to good use. This is obviously no surprise because we had these two in our group. Kgotsi and Carel, thank you so much for stretching us as a team, thank you for always teaching us to think far beyond the ordinary and never to limit ourselves. You remain two very brilliant people in my life.
Carel, we may not have spent a lot of time together but I learnt so much from you. Your ability to take any random idea an flip it upside down, turn it inside out and tear it apart has always been a source of fascination for me. You taught me to really stretch my imagination, because ‘anything is possible'. Thank you.
Kgosti, I enjoyed being in the same group as you. We shared many mundane moments, talking about the mundane parts of life, and yet, it was always an honor to watch you dissect our ideologies and push us to move beyond the boundaries in our thinking. You are a star.
The gurus (Alli, Makhosazana and Edy)
Perhaps my biggest issue in this team was not that I was such a moemish, but rather the fact that I was surrounded by such superlative women all the time. You ladies really put me to shame with your all encompassing knowledge (lol). I am honored to have been counted amongst you. Thank you for always providing the facts and figures, sharing your wisdom and offering your talents. Above all, thank you for providing that sisterly love and kindness.
Alli, you have been a remarkable friend to me and I will forever be grateful to SAWIP for bringing us together. Our friendship has gone beyond the numerous sushi sagas in DC and I value you so much. Apart from teaching us to take more interest in history and to always be accurate, thank you for being the voice of the team. You helped us (especially me) speak our minds.
Ma-kho-sa-za-na, ‘with five syllables’, as you know, we as a team are in awe of you. You have accomplished so much at such a young age and you continue to serve as an inspiration to all those around you. Thank you for the good times spent exploring DC (in an organized manner). You helped me learn how to use maps, plan my day, and map out my route before actually leaving the house. You will always be dear to me.
Edy, I still have not figured out where you store all that knowledge, you literally came into my life and became that girl who knew something about EVERYTHING. You are incredible smart and I have loved getting to know you. Thank you for the many ‘gossip’ sessions we had ranting about our ‘high school’ friend drama and just being typical girls. Your spirit sparkles with love and acceptence.
The SAWagers (Daniel and Zola)
SAWag is a term that was coined by the 2012 team in order to conceptualize what the team stood for- a group of young people who were passionate about bringing change to their country, dedicated to expressing love and hope to their fellow mankind and not afraid to tackle any challenges put before them. Most important to this meaning, however, is the fact that these young people oozed a sense of charm and personality. They were the epitome of ‘cool’, as well as role models in their community. Zola and Daniel were most pertinent to this term. All you need to need is to check out our pictures and you will see who shines the most in this team. Day in, day out, Zola and Daniel dripped with SAWag, striking poses like no other, but most importantly, caring like no other.
Daniel, you are such a cool human being! You do not even have to try, it just comes naturally. You proved to us that ‘white’ boys can dance and your humility brought us all together. Thank you for reminding us all to live. Thank you for being a teacher in our country, you are a glimmer of hope to those who have given up in our education system.
Zola, you dress well and represent SAWIP well J, but the thing that shines brighter than your clothes is your heart. Your sense if empathy is what kept our group on the ground all the time. Without sounding cliché, you capture the heart of 'our people'. In every circumstance, you always looked for the answer that was best for the many who would never be afforded the privileges that we were. Keep shining boet, just like the stars across the sky.
The whips (Saif and Thami)
As a team, we were perhaps a bit too social, needless to say that in most cases we needed Saif and Thami to keep us in order. From being punctual to getting the community service off the ground, typing out reports, and communicating with one another, thank you so much for always pushing us to do our bests.
Saif, I grew rather fond of you during our SAWIP experience. You are a remarkable individual with enormous potential. Thank you for standing as a leader in our group. Thank you for never shying away from responsibility and for always being sensible. You stay true to your beliefs and I respect you for that.
Thami, you are a great leader because you expect nothing less than excellent from yourself. From you, we learnt to do things properly and in a timely fashion. You taught us to be professional at all times, never to give up, and to give our all. Thank you.
The anchor (Parveen)
Finally, we get to the most interesting individual in the group, Parveen. Famous for her outstanding entrepreneurial skills as well as her inimitable sense of expression, Parveen kept us well entertained all the time.
Parveen, Thank you for helping us stay grounded. Your loyalty and maturity is what kept us glued us together. I have so much respect for you because of this. You have a beautiful heart and I look forward to spending more years getting to know you and learning from you.
Thank you SAWIP 2012, you hold a very special place in my heart.